January 2025

Redefining identity in a shared humanity

Go to fornesus at WordPress for Version 1 and fornesus at Medium for Version 2.

Jan 7 • 

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Why I'm back to school at 30

And may just quit my job

Jan 6 • 

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2024: My year of deeply reflecting on myself (and unlearning myself to grow)

2024 was a tumultuous year for me, a stranger on the internet. But maybe this holds some lessons that could be valuable for you.

Jan 2 • 

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January 2024

The Politics of Loneliness

We've all heard or read about it. Something called the "loneliness epidemic", right?

Jan 8, 2024 • 

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Being invisible has harmed my self-esteem

Depression, anxiety, and CPTSD continually rob me of my capacity for self-love and acceptance. In this article, I tell my story and make the case for…

Jan 1, 2024 • 

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December 2023

Who Is Toffee?

Hey everyone, I'm Toffee Fornesus, but I usually just call myself "Fornesus" on my socials or "Chris" online and in-person.

Dec 30, 2023 • 

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